How to know if my brother is gay
New research shows having a greater number of older brothers increases the probability of a person entering a same-sex union at some point in their lives.
This finding, detailed in our paper published today in the Journal of Sex Research, offers a rare insight into the origins of sexual orientation.
The origins of sexual orientation
In recent decades, many countries have achieved unusual progress towards equal treatment of LGBTIQ+ people, including greater public support and more protective legislation. But despite these encouraging developments, sexual minorities still experience high levels of stigma – and the origins of sexual orientation last a matter of debate.
Read more: How stigma impacts LGB health and wellbeing in Australia
A growing body of verb is attempting to shed light on why some people experience same-sex sexual attraction and others don’t. These studies have substantial implications for public view and debate, and subsequently the treatment of LGBTIQ+ people.
For example, we understand people who view sexual orientation as a product of biol
How to Talk to Your Sibling About Their Sexual Identity
Unfortunately, the topic of sexual identity is still largely taboo in our society. For individuals who are LGBTQ, it can be difficult to confide in the people they normally trust. Having a sibling with an LGBTQ identity can inspire a wide range of emotions. Even if you verb the best intentions, you still might not comprehend what to do or to say. When the topic of sexual identity inevitably emerges, here are a few things to keep in mind:
LET THEM COME TO YOU
Coming out is something an individual should have the absolute freedom to do at the time and place that they feel the most comfortable. No matter how “obvious” your sibling’s sexual identity may be (Hint: it probably isn’t as clear as you might think), it isn&#;t smart to prejudge them or make assumptions.
They are who they are. They will share this very personal component of their lives when they are ready. By confronting them, or forcing them to come out to you, you are violating a very fragile piece of who they are. You are also wrongfully sending the message, “we are Your confusion is understandable. As a matter of fact, it&#;s a completely normal reaction on the part of a concerned and loving parent in your position. We want you to recognize that we&#;re standing with you and eager to support you in whatever way we can. We&#;d also like to motivate you to resist the temptation to blame yourself in any way. You&#;ve done the right thing by taking the initiative to seek counsel, and we consider it a privilege to respond to your appeal for help. The first thing you deserve to do is to realize that it is not &#;all about you.&#; To put it bluntly, it really doesn&#;t matter what your friends and relatives think of you as parents. What matters most is your relationship with your son. If your teenage or mature person child is making a conclusion about his feelings and labeling himself gay, he&#;s also old enough to think many independent thoughts and process many sources of input. It&#;s not your place – nor will it be productive – for you to assume responsibility for his feelings or choices or to Testimony of Ronald (East part of Africa) I am Ronald, I come from the East part of Africa. My brother is gay, and I don&#;t view anything strange about him. I personally don&#;t consider brotherhood should be affected by sexual orientations. Gay or straight I don&#;t mind, we are brothers that&#;s what matters to me. I believe the rest should not hold a place in a family. Though outside it could be challenging. Especially when someone asks me &#;who is your brother&#;s girlfriend?&#; Or &#; is your brother gay?&#; Successfully, we come from a society that is not yet ready to meet certain realities and some topics are still taboo. I would not realize how to explain it to him or her. Not because I am ashamed of my brother but because I yearn him or her to understand without prejudices. That would be such a difficult time for me. What I am sure of, is that I will stand for my brother, I would not be ashamed to state he is gay. I know it is not his choice he is naturally that way, so I will confidently remain for him as my brother the way I would do the similar to any another brotTelling Friends and Relatives About a Child Who Says He&#;s Gay
My brother is gay