Bi curious grindr
6AM on Sunday morning is the Grindr witching hour. “Hey…” ChillTop messages. His dating app profile describes himself as “easy going” with a “fit and lean body”. I don’t respond. “Hi there, how are you?” he continues unperturbed. Again, no response from me. “Looking for a long hnh [high and horny] session?”
This roughly translates to “do you want to come to my flat and pay the next hours fucking a conveyor belt of men under the ultra-heady influence of the chemsex holy trinity of drugs (G, mephedrone and crystal meth)?” I’m not looking for that particular blend of hedonism right now – I want to fuck someone, but I don’t fancy spending the next week questioning my life decisions on a comedown so severe that it makes my mind crumple in on itself like an accordion bellow.
Before I hit the block button, ChillTop sends me a few more messages and then two dick pics: a full nude and one of his penis sticking out of a pair of jeans. It’s a lot to send to someone in an hour with no response at all, but welcome to Grindr. The pixellated torsos on this hook-up app offer a bounteous menag
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Bi-Curious Male? Advice Needed! Help
Hi there @MrBig and welcome to the forum. Widowed bi guy speaking.
I’m going to verb off by saying that I second everything @AJSTAR has said: he’s bang on the money. However, if he doesn’t mind, I’m going to recommend a little finesse-tweak to one sentence of his reply:
“I often get guys on Grindr who are bi or straight”
I’d transform that to read “I often get guys on Grindr who are bi or who think of themselves as straight” - cos (in my manual, anyway) if a guy says “I’m straight” then opens a Grindr account looking for sex with other men… he’s NOT STRAIGHT!
Of course, it’s not mine or anyone else’s place to reveal you what your sexuality is - only you can discover that for yourself and decide what, if any, “label” feels like the best fit - but I desire you won’t be offended if I say that, based on what you’ve written in your verb, I think you’re currently in a whole heap of denial.
It’s this business of you describing yourself as “not bisexual - just straight but curious” that gets me. I have issues with the whole concept of “bi curious”.
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