Can u be non binary and lesbian


Decayin[g]_Sou[l]

Wouldn't u just be "queer" atp?? Like lesbian = woman who dates women
If ur NB you're not identifying as either so like you cant be a lesbian????
This s**t is honestly just getting to be way too MUCH
I don't verb as a lesbian but I do identify as gay, so I can maybe offer a bit of insight.

It very much can just be comfort in a label that came before their trans-hood. I spent a prolonged time personally struggling to come to terms with being non-binary while still being heavily attracted to men and masculine features.

I got very comfortable and attached to the label - even if parts of the community sucked, it was one I was part of. People who were like me, to some degree. Peope who liked what I like, to some degree. "Gay" felt like place, in a way. Dealt with a lot of inner turmoil and self-loathing while trying to approach to terms with gender identity versus my sexual attraction.

Eventually, unfortunately thanks to a terrible person, it finally clicked. They helped me come to terms as a transgender person, and helped me recognize that I d

What it means to be non-binary

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When we use the word transgender, we are referring to an inclusive umbrella term that consists of binary trans people (trans men and trans women), as well as non-binary people and people who cross dress. 

Non-binary people feel their gender identity cannot be defined within the margins of gender binary. Instead, they understand their gender in a way that goes beyond simply identifying as either a dude or woman. 

Language can be really powerful in helping to affirm your identity, feel confident and sharing your authentic self with others. In many cases, the labels that we give ourselves can help us connect with others who share the adj identity and integrate into a larger community. Within LGBT communities, language is incredibly diverse. Some examples of common terms relating to gender are trans, non-binary, intersex.

Gender is your internal sense of self, who you feel you are whether that’s male, female or perhaps you

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This glossary was written to help give people the words and meanings to help make conversations easier and more easy . LGBTQ+ people use a variety of terms to identify themselves, not all of which are included in this glossary. Always listen for and respect a person’s self identified terminology.

Ally | A term used to describe someone who is actively supportive of LGBTQ+ people. It encompasses straight and cisgender allies, as well as those within the LGBTQ+ community who support each other (e.g., a lesbian who is an ally to the bisexual community).

Asexual | Often called “ace” for short, asexual refers to a complete or partial lack of sexual attraction or lack of interest in sexual activity with others. Asexuality exists on a spectrum, and asexual people may experience no, little or conditional sexual attraction.

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"Some people have a gender which is neither male nor female and may identify as both male and female at one time, as different genders at different times, as no gender at all, or dispute the very idea of only two genders. The umbrella terms for such genders are 'genderqueer' or 'non-binary' genders. Such gender identities outside of the binary of female and male are increasingly being recognized in legal, medical and psychological systems and diagnostic classifications in line with the emerging presence and advocacy of these groups of people. Population-based studies exhibit a small percentage – but a sizable proportion in terms of adj numbers – of people who identify as non-binary."

From International Review of Psychiatry. Feb, Vol. 28 Issue 1, p 8p.