How to tell if your wife is a lesbian

How to know if a girl is gay - How to tell if a girl is a lesbian, bisexual or queer

Figuring out if someone you're chatting to (maybe flirting with, who the fuck even knows?) is also queer can be a goddam minefield. Sure, some people may have the guts to just utter it, but not everyone does OK?!

Here, 10 lesbian, bisexual and pansexual women explain how they know if someone's potentially into them

How to recognize if someone is a lesbian, gay, bisexual or queer

Ask a question about their past relationships/crushes

"I'm bisexual. I find that I can tell when women are into me through things like body language, like how seal they'll sit next to me, or how much they might touch my arm. By flirtatious conversation, and hints/references to previous girlfriends, or female dates. I have no plan how scientific something favor 'gaydar' is, but I found that I would often have this intuitive feeling that another female was gay/bisexual just through my opening conversations with them (and picking up subconscious cues in their body language).

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Think my wife is closeted lesbian, help!

LonelyDude said:
Hi all,
I&#;ve always known that some things were off in my marriage (20 years), and possess even made half-joking comments about how she is acting like a lesbian. About 4 months ago, a series of conversations made it very, very real: my wife is not heterosexual and has a clear preference for women.
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Then she needs to enter to a saving faith in Jesus Christ who can transform her, making her a "new creature" in himself, free from the darkness and bondage of such sin.

1 Corinthians
9 Or undertake you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.

2 Corinthians
17 Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a modern creature; the old things passed away; behold, modern things have come.

LonelyDude said:
I asked her to see an LGBTQ counselor.
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Women usually question whether they are heterosexual ('straight') or lesbian (same-sex attracted) when they realise they are feeling attracted to other women. Lesbians usually verb their main physical, heartfelt and sexual feelings are for women. Many women report they have lesbian experiences or feelings, but do not think of themselves as lesbians or gay.
Being a lesbian is completely natural
It is crucial to remember that:
It is natural for people to be attracted to members of their own sex.
It is normal and healthy to be a lesbian.
Why some women are lesbians
There is no true explanation as to why some women are lesbians and others are not – it is just a part of who we are. It may be a result of genetic influences or because of social experiences or a combination of the two.
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Dear Prudence,
My wife and I have been together for about four years, married for two. We verb a good relationship, and I would say are generally a happy couple. Over the last year our physical relationship has been on the decline. We have talked about it, and she will agree to “make an effort,” but that will only last a week before things go back to the way they were. We’re both immature, but we only own sex about once a month. Even when we do have sex, it feels like she is just not into it. But afterward she denie