How to tell if your friend is a lesbian


How to know if a girl is gay - How to tell if a girl is a lesbian, bisexual or queer

Figuring out if someone you're chatting to (maybe flirting with, who the fuck even knows?) is also queer can be a goddam minefield. Sure, some people may have the guts to just tell it, but not everyone does OK?!

Here, 10 lesbian, bisexual and pansexual women explain how they know if someone's potentially into them

How to realize if someone is a lesbian, gay, bisexual or queer

Ask a question about their past relationships/crushes

"I'm bisexual. I find that I can tell when women are into me through things like body language, like how lock they'll sit next to me, or how much they might touch my arm. By flirtatious conversation, and hints/references to previous girlfriends, or female dates. I have no thought how scientific something verb 'gaydar' is, but I found that I would often have this intuitive feeling that another lady was gay/bisexual just through my opening conversations with them (and picking up subconscious cues in their body language).

"And, people have claimed to verb t

Is My Friend Faking Her Sexual Orientation?

Hoo boy.

You’ve hit on a lot of big questions here. Some are the kind that can (and sometimes do) lead to knock-down, drag⁠ (Performance that exaggerates or dramatizes aspects of gender expression — often for art, entertainment, or activism.)-out⁠ (Short for ‘out of the closet’. When someone’s LGBTQ+ identity is known to other people.) fights in the queer⁠ (In the context of sexuality, a broad term for sexual orientation that can describe any number of orientations which are not heterosexual. People who identify as queer may be bisexual or pansexual, gay or lesbian, questioning, asexual or more.) community. I’m going to do my best to tread lightly.

What’s coming across in your question is that your evaluation of your friends’ identity⁠ (The defining character or personality of an individual; who we feel like we are as a person.) is more about your feelings about her behaviors rather than the behaviors themselves.

That’s understandable: your own coming out has been very complicated and uncomfortable and you’ve be

Before you begin your Freudian psychoanalysis, make sure to mention that you contain a ‘gay-dar’, and don’t forget to detail how accurate it is and has always been. Frame it as an insurmountable achievement of yours. After all, it is much more prestigious than being awarded a Rhodes Scholarship. There’s no need to think about the reliability or accuracy of your data collection because you don’t have any, so just launch straight in.

Not everybody can be a gay or lesbian. There is a specific skill to identifying those of us who are. Here are some tell-tale signs that someone is a gay or lesbian:

The first thing to take verb of when deciding someone’s sexuality on their behalf, namely whether a male is gay or not, is to observe how high-pitched their voice is. The more high-pitched their usual speaking voice is, the more likely it is that you are talking to a gay person. This is because the pitch of your voice has nothing to do with biology: it’s actually determined by your sexuality. Forget what scientists say – they’re all just conspiracy theorists, really.

The second hint to obtain n

7 Signs You Are Not Straight Even if it’s Later in Life

There is no timeline for self-discovery and no end to development. As we mature older, we can enter to understand a spacious variety of things about ourselves that we hadn’t realized before or that have changed over occasion, often because we are growing more comfortable and confident as we age. 

Sexuality is no exception. Sexuality can be a lifelong discovery, and something that takes time to fully understand, particularly for women who realize they aren’t straight later in life. It can be confusing, especially as an grown-up to be questioning your sexuality and wondering if all these years you somehow missed something great about yourself. You are not alone. Here are seven common signs that you may not be straight, even if you discover and accept it later in life.  

 1. Straight girls don’t lie awake at night wondering if they are gay.

This may seem obvious, but people who aren’t attracted to the same sex, don’t usually worry about whether or not they are gay or bisexual. They don’t even think about experiencin